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Break Up Advice: How To Get Over A Guy You Never Actually Dated
 
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Sometimes the hardest guy to get over is the guy you never actually dated. When you're broken hearted, people ask: how long were you together? It's embarrassing when the answer is: you weren't. But it's harder to get over a crush than a boyfriend! Here's how to move on from a fling, a crush or a guy who wasn't actually your boyfriend. πŸ’œ GOT A LOVE QUESTION? πŸ’œ πŸ‘‰ Head to https://www.instantgo.com/shallonxo πŸ‘‰ Download the app and find me, ShallonXO, and click CHAT! πŸ‘‰ Get an answer within 24 hours--guaranteed! πŸ‘‰ Only $2 a message! πŸ’œ SUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! πŸ’œ ENGAGE: Check the Community tab for advice, polls, and more info on this week’s topic! πŸ’œ FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO πŸ’œ RELATED VIDEOS: πŸ‘‰ Why You Like A Guy You've Never Talked To: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6QMEg9W_YEE&t=15s πŸ‘‰ When To Give Up On Your Crush https://goo.gl/FICu97 πŸ‘‰ Why He’ll Text You But Not Ask You Out https://goo.gl/UYsPpJ πŸ‘‰ Why He Flirts If He Has A Girlfriend https://goo.gl/hOKFHV πŸ‘‰ The Truth About What A Snapchat Streak REALLY Means: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e8AG0OFf7uM&t=186s
Views: 146737 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: How To Get Over A Guy You Have To See All The Time
 
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Getting over a crush isn't easy and it's damn near impossible if he's in your class, at your work or a family friend. Here's how to move on from a crush or break up if you have to see your ex all the time! πŸ’œRELATED VIDEOS: --Why you can't forget that ONE ex: https://goo.gl/VOcSCE --How to keep from texting your ex: https://goo.gl/7SmC4f --How to get closure after a split: https://goo.gl/ZZTctr --How to get over your ex: https://goo.gl/wNrzjF --How to get over a guy you never dated: https://goo.gl/NsZvWO πŸ’œFOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO πŸ’œSUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! http://goo.gl/5gzrF9** πŸ’œCONTACT: Got a love question? Leave it here on YouTube ONLY as a comment or private message--no Instagram DMs!
Views: 47407 Shallon Lester
Dating Advice: Easy Ways To Get A Guy's Attention!
 
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Do you have a boy that you just can't stop thinking about? Do you need to figure out how to stand out in a crowded classroom? Well stop thinking about him and make him actually notice you! There are tons of subtle ways to get your crush's attention. Here, I'll teach you how to get a boy to notice you and make a boy like you! - Get him alone (not in a group) - Ask him a question that he can answer. Give him a problem to solve to reinforce his masculinity. - Find opportunities! No matter the situation, you can find a way to flirt with a guy you like. - A good flirter can change a negative into a positive. Remember, men want to feel useful! If he solves a problem you have, it gives you a further reason to communicate. πŸ’œ GOT A LOVE QUESTION? πŸ’œ πŸ‘‰ Head to https://www.instantgo.com/shallonxo πŸ‘‰ Download the app and find me, ShallonXO, and submit your question. πŸ‘‰ Get an answer within 24 hours--guaranteed! πŸ‘‰ Only $2 a message! πŸ’œ SUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! πŸ’œ RELATED VIDEOS: πŸ‘‰ How To Reinvent Yourself: https://youtu.be/L_s-pOWZzhE πŸ‘‰ Breaking The Cycle Of Bad Relationships https://youtu.be/oWw5CQwtG2o πŸ‘‰ How To Build Confidence: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AR__8... πŸ‘‰ 5 Things Boys Hate To See On Social Media https://youtu.be/81X9yB8BRbA πŸ‘‰ Why A Guy Flirts When He Has A GF https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zP1WZ4AkvPA&t=6s πŸ’œ ENGAGE: Check the Community tab for advice, polls, and more info on this week’s topic! πŸ’œ FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO
Views: 114383 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: How To Be More Approachable to Boys
 
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Are boys always flirting with your friends but ignoring you? Are you cuter than the girl who IS getting attention from guys? Here's how to make yourself more approachable to boys and get them to flirt with YOU! --Body Language: Make sure your posture, smile, and vibe says "Come talk to me!" not "I'm having a miserable time." -Put Your Phone Away: Guys dont want to approach a girl who's always on her cell --Be Alone: Don't always be with your clique, it makes it hard for guys to approach you --Check Your Volume & Style: Are you the loudest girl in the room? How about the trendiest? You may be scaring guys off! RELATED VIDEOS: -How To Tell If He Likes You: https://goo.gl/dHgpRI -How To Flirt To Get A Boyfriend: https://goo.gl/kfA0e6 -How To Approach Your Crush: https://goo.gl/LXVxx1 **SUBSCRIBE for weekly tips from @AskShallon** https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester Facebook – Follow me on Facebook to submit your love questions and get daily tips and style advice! https://www.facebook.com/shallonlester Twitter & Instagram: @ShallonXO *IMPORTANT!* Make sure you're logged into Google+ so I can reply to your comments!
Views: 65362 Shallon Lester
Dating Advice: The TWO SIGNS That A Boy Likes You!
 
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Not sure how your crush feels about you? I'll tell you the two absolute signs--as proven by science!--that a guy likes you back Some quick tips: 1. There's a PATTERN of communication 2. There's an ESCALATION of that pattern πŸ’œ GOT A LOVE QUESTION? πŸ’œ πŸ‘‰ Head to https://www.instantgo.com/shallonxo πŸ‘‰ Download the app and find me, ShallonXO, and submit your question. πŸ‘‰ Get an answer within 24 hours--guaranteed! πŸ‘‰ Only $2 a message! πŸ’œ SUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! πŸ’œ ENGAGE: Check the Community tab for advice, polls, and more info on this week’s topic! πŸ’œ FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO πŸ’œ RELATED VIDEOS: πŸ‘‰ What Boys REALLY Want In A GF: https://youtu.be/bZCDHlrlfn8 πŸ‘‰ How to Flirt & Make Him Like You: https://goo.gl/k1VeIK πŸ‘‰ Boy Behavior Decoded! https://goo.gl/T6kRlq
Views: 123339 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: How To Stand Out To The Guy Everyone Likes!
 
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Do you and your friends all like the same boy? Here's how to get the popular hot guy to notice you when every other girl wants him too! RELATED VIDEOS: --How to stop being jealous of perfect girls: https://goo.gl/DWTZPL --How to be confident: https://goo.gl/MpDv9u --Get a popular guy to like you: https://goo.gl/9HHHf6 **SUBSCRIBE for weekly tips from @AskShallon: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=shallonlester Leaving a comment? Be sure you follow me on Google+ so I can reply! Facebook – Follow me on Facebook to submit your love questions and get daily tips and style advice! https://www.facebook.com/shallonlester Twitter & Instagram: @ShallonXO
Views: 38709 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: How To Get Over Being Rejected
 
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Being rejected by a guy is never fun, but here's how to shake it off when a guy doesn't ask you out again for a second date, never texts back, or just disses you in real life! Twitter, Snapchat & Instagram: @ShallonXO RELATED VIDEOS: --How to keep from texting your ex: https://goo.gl/7SmC4f --Getting closure after a split: https://goo.gl/ZZTctr --How to get over your ex: https://goo.gl/wNrzjF --Getting over that ONE guy you can't forget: https://goo.gl/8q27GC **SUBSCRIBE for weekly tips from @AskShallon** Got a love question? Leave it here as a comment or private message! Be sure you follow me on Google+ so I can reply!
Views: 26142 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: How To Get Over A Jerk & Get Closure
 
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Can't get over a break up? How to heal a broken heart and move on from a bad breakup and awful boyfriend who hurt you! Follow me on Facebook for daily tips on love, style, and sex! https://www.facebook.com/shallonlester Plus, follow me on Twitter & Instagram @ShallonXO
Views: 32129 Shallon Lester
Dating Advice: The Body Language That Tells You If a Guy Likes You
 
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Does he? Doesn't he? Here are a few simple body language cues that will let you know if your crush likes you too! A fan sent me a message needing advice about a boy she likes. She asked him out to prom recently, but now realizes she has feelings for him! Here are some quick tips to tell if a boy likes you: -Rely on his body language. Is he energy directed toward you? How are his shoulders positioned? Are his pupils dilated? -The personal space test will help you tell if a boy likes you. -Ladies, it's pretty easy to tell if a boy likes you without asking him! You just have to know how to be cool about it. πŸ’œ RELATED VIDEOS: --Why you should NEVER ask a guy out https://goo.gl/0zskZZ --Why a guy will text but not ask you out: https://goo.gl/Q4hed4 --Boy behavior decoded! https://goo.gl/T6kRlq --The 2 Signs A Boy Likes You https://goo.gl/CcktxH πŸ’œ FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO πŸ’œ SUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! πŸ’œ SUBMIT: Got a love question? Leave it here on YouTube ONLY as a comment or private message--no Instagram DMs!
Views: 105682 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: How to Act on a First Date
 
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Your crush asked you out...so now what?! Here are tips and tricks for your first date with your crush and how to make him ask you out on a second date! Got a love question? Ask me on Facebook! https://www.facebook.com/shallonlester And follow me on Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO
Views: 26512 Shallon Lester
Dating Advice: Tips For The Perfect First Date
 
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Got a first date with your crush? I'll tell you how to act AND what to wear on a first date to make it unforgettable and GUARANTEE that you get a second one! πŸ’œ FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO πŸ’œ RELATED VIDEOS: πŸ‘‰The Outfit Boys Like Most: https://goo.gl/yLJ6pU πŸ‘‰What Guys REALLY Want In A GF: https://goo.gl/us0xuu πŸ‘‰How To Tell If He Likes You: https://goo.gl/dHgpRI πŸ‘‰Tips For A Tinder Or Online Date: https://goo.gl/xPRmqB πŸ‘‰How To Flirt To Get A Boyfriend: https://goo.gl/kfA0e πŸ’œ SUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! πŸ’œ CONTACT: Got a love question? Leave it here on YouTube ONLY as a comment or private message--no Instagram DMs!
Views: 17158 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: Translating a Boy's Texts
 
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Confused by a guy's texts? This can be the most annoying thing ever. We spend so much time crafting the perfect text, only to get a reply that we may or may not know how to receive. Remember: - Guys communicate to solve problems, women communicate to build relationships. - If a guy isn't asking you questions or doing things to further the conversation .. then don't text back!! - New Term: SBF = Semi-Boyfriend. Here's how to figure out what a boy REALLY means when he texts you! **SUBSCRIBE for weekly tips from @AskShallon: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_c... Facebook – Follow me on Facebook to submit your love questions and get daily tips and style advice! https://www.facebook.com/shallonlester Twitter & Instagram: @ShallonXO Make sure you a logged into Google+ for me to reply to your comments. Related Videos: Ask Shallon: 4 Rules For Texting With Boys! youtube.com/watch?v=nXsS_SSFqeM Ask Shallon: How To Turn A Friend Into A Boyfriend | Get Out Of The Friendzone youtube.com/watch?v=EtMVVSUfDMA Ask Shallon: When A Boy Will Only Text You, But Not Ask You Out! youtube.com/watch?v=Ph8sTknFDiU
Views: 63416 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: Are You Acting Desperate? | How Not To Look Crazy
 
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Is your crush avoiding you? Has he stopped flirting with you and talking to you? You may have scared him away. Here's how to make sure you don't look like you're trying too hard to catch your crush's attention and get him to like you. NEW! Follow me on Facebook to submit your love questions and get daily dating tips and style advice! https://www.facebook.com/shallonlester Twitter & Instagram: @ShallonXO
Views: 42522 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: How To Not Be Nervous Around Your Crush or Date
 
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We all know what its like to be around your crush. You notice every single thing he does and everything he says, but you cannot act nervous around your crush or date.. you just can't! Learn a little trick how to deal with being super excited and nervous around your crush, and present your best self. Hint: Rainbows. **SUBSCRIBE for weekly tips from @AskShallon: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=shallonlester Facebook – Follow me on Facebook to submit your love questions and get daily tips and style advice! https://www.facebook.com/shallonlester Twitter & Instagram: @ShallonXO Make sure you a logged into Google+ to leave a comment for this video. Related Videos: How To Act in a Relationship: http://goo.gl/Vyh9Fy What It Means When You Feel Scared of Love:http://goo.gl/zZ7u0T How To Act on a First Date: http://goo.gl/3xJx6D
Views: 27072 Shallon Lester
Break Up Advice: Want Your Ex Back? Post THIS To Make Him Miss You!
 
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If you're heartbroken and want your ex or crush to miss you and change his mind (or if you just want revenge) I'll tell you exactly what to post--and what NOT to post--on Instagram, Snapchat, Twitter or Facebook. When you're sad it's natural to want to express it but DO NOT DO THAT. It will only drive him further away. Remember: when it comes to social media, you are having the best day ever, every single day! πŸ’œ RELATED VIDEOS: πŸ‘‰Social media do's and dont's: https://goo.gl/VrDvuK πŸ‘‰How to handle rejection: https://goo.gl/Wl3Yda πŸ‘‰How to keep from texting your ex: https://goo.gl/7SmC4f πŸ‘‰Getting closure after a split: https://goo.gl/ZZTctr πŸ‘‰How to get over your ex: https://goo.gl/wNrzjF πŸ‘‰Getting over that ONE guy you can't forget: https://goo.gl/8q27GC πŸ’œ FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO πŸ’œ SUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! πŸ’œ CONTACT: Got a love question? Leave it here on YouTube ONLY as a comment or private message--no Instagram DMs!
Views: 43897 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: Why Boys Disappear After A Few Dates | Why Guys Ghost
 
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Did you have a few great dates with a guy who said he liked you and talked about the future? Did a guy ghost out for no apparent reason? I'll tell you why guys disappear after a few dates and how to can prevent it from happening! There could be a few reasons why he stopped dating you ... (see below) - You overestimated his interest in you. - He is a clinical narcissist! - He doesn't actually want to be a 'boyfriend', but more like a good first and second date - He underestimated your interest in him Ladies, let's avoid this by taking it slowly and with a grain of salt. Not all of us are gullible, but may just need time to analyze any red flags. Follow me on Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO **SUBSCRIBE for new videos every Friday!** Got a love question? Leave it here on YouTube ONLY as a comment or private message--no Instagram DMs! Related Videos: -How to Find Out If A Guy Has a Boyfriend - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hWlT2tx_A9U -When To Give Up On Your Crush - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DpqGcGyDBGc -Why He Suddenly Stops Liking You -https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BxGnpg84_s8
Views: 22651 Shallon Lester
Dating Advice: Should You Go After A Boy Who Has A Girlfriend?
 
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Do you have a crush on a guy who is dating someone else? Is a boy flirting with you even though he has a girlfriend? Here's how to decode your crush's confusing behavior and how to deal with a guy having a girlfriend. 1. Realize that he may not ever leave her--and I'll explain why. 2. Ask yourself if you even want a guy who will go from girl to girl so easily 3. Tips on how to act to make sure he leaves his GF in the dust and chooses you! πŸ’œ GOT A LOVE QUESTION? πŸ’œ πŸ‘‰ Head to https://www.instantgo.com/shallonxo πŸ‘‰ Download the app and find me, ShallonXO, and click CHAT! πŸ‘‰ Get an answer within 24 hours--guaranteed! πŸ‘‰ Only $2 a message! πŸ’œ SUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! πŸ’œ ENGAGE: Check the Community tab for advice, polls, and more info on this week’s topic! πŸ’œ FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO πŸ’œ RELATED VIDEOS: πŸ‘‰ How To Get Over A Guy You Never Actually Dated https://youtu.be/ZFYPBr02N20 πŸ‘‰How To Get Over A Jerk https://goo.gl/Dy0LBy πŸ‘‰Why He Flirts If He Has A Girlfriend https://goo.gl/hOKFHV πŸ‘‰Why He’ll Text You But Not Ask You Out https://goo.gl/UYsPpJ πŸ‘‰The 2 Signs A Boy Likes You https://goo.gl/CcktxH
Views: 94876 Shallon Lester
Dating Advice: What It Means When A Guy Says He's Not Ready For A Relationship
 
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What does it mean when a guy you like--or have even been dating--says he's just not ready for a relationship, or isn't looking for a girlfriend? There are two possibilities of what he's REALLY trying to say...and what YOU can do to change his mind and become his girlfriend! πŸ’œ GOT A LOVE QUESTION? πŸ’œ πŸ‘‰ Head to https://www.instantgo.com/shallonxo πŸ‘‰ Download the app and find me, ShallonXO, and click CHAT! πŸ‘‰ Get an answer within 24 hours--guaranteed! πŸ‘‰ Only $2 a message! πŸ’œ SUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! πŸ’œ ENGAGE: Check the Community tab for advice, polls, and more info on this week’s topic! πŸ’œ FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO πŸ’œ RELATED VIDEOS: πŸ‘‰ Why A Guy Can Like YOu...But Not Commit https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KPhisuvtROQ&t=2s πŸ‘‰ πŸ‘‰ How To Be More Than A Hookup: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3rUWtNYCeAA πŸ‘‰ Breaking The Cycle Of Bad Relationships https://youtu.be/oWw5CQwtG2o πŸ‘‰ How To Build Confidence: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AR__8... πŸ‘‰ 5 Things Boys Hate To See On Social Media https://youtu.be/81X9yB8BRbA πŸ‘‰ πŸ‘‰ Why A Guy Flirts When He Has A GF https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zP1WZ4AkvPA&t=6s
Views: 53985 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: Why A Boy Suddenly Stops Liking You
 
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Here's why your crush went from being flirty and looking at you to suddenly acting weird, distant and ignoring you! ⏩RELATED VIDEOS: -Boy Behavior Decoded! https://goo.gl/T6kRlq -When To Give Up On Your Crush https://goo.gl/FICu97 -Why He’ll Text You But Not Ask You Out https://goo.gl/UYsPpJ -The 2 Signs A Boy Likes You https://goo.gl/CcktxH ⏩FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO ⏩SUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! http://goo.gl/5gzrF9** ⏩SUBMIT: Got a love question? Leave it here on YouTube ONLY as a comment or private message--no Instagram DMs! RELATED VIDEOS: --How to be more than a hook up: https://goo.gl/yNNZzC --Why you can't forget your ex: https://goo.gl/uQweLJ --How to get over your ex: https://goo.gl/wNrzjF NEW! Follow me on Facebook to submit your love questions and get daily dating tips and style advice! Twitter & Instagram: @ShallonXO
Views: 77630 Shallon Lester
Dating Advice: How To Tell If Your Boyfriend Isn't Over His Ex--Part 1
 
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4 key signs you should never ignore! Do you have a feeling that your boyfriend isn't over his ex and may still have feelings for her? Is he liking his ex's pics on social media? Does he bring her up a lot, or still hang out with her? I'll tell you the red flags that mean he's still into his ex girlfriend or hook up. Next week in Part 2, I'll tell you what you can do about it! πŸ’œ GOT A LOVE QUESTION? πŸ’œ πŸ‘‰ Head to https://www.instantgo.com/shallonxo πŸ‘‰ Download the app and find me, ShallonXO, and submit your question. πŸ‘‰ Get an answer within 24 hours--guaranteed! πŸ‘‰ Only $2 a message! πŸ’œ RELATED VIDEOS: πŸ‘‰ Tips For Dealing With Your BF's Ex: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rQzO6M9zbIk πŸ‘‰ When Your Crush Isn't Over His Ex: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pqx7au5Kpg0 πŸ‘‰ Should You Go After A Guy With A GF? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lnXWASDmUnc πŸ‘‰ Why A Guy Flirts When He Has A GF https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zP1WZ4AkvPA&t=6s πŸ’œ ENGAGE: Check the Community tab for advice, polls, and more info on this week’s topic! πŸ’œ FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO
Views: 42857 Shallon Lester
DATING ADVICE: Why A Guy Flirts When He Has a Girlfriend---Will He Ever Leave Her For You?
 
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πŸ’œ GOT A LOVE QUESTION? πŸ’œ πŸ‘‰ Head to https://www.instantgo.com/shallonxo πŸ‘‰ Download the app and find me, ShallonXO, and submit your question. πŸ‘‰ Get an answer within 24 hours--guaranteed! πŸ‘‰ Only $2 a message! Are you confused about a boy who flirts and tells you he likes you even though he has a girlfriend? Does he actually like you or is he just a player trying to make you the side chick? Here's what's REALLY going on! -He's flirting with you because he wants to have his cake (a stable loving GF) and eat it too (a spicy, exciting side chick to keep him stimulated) -If he's a quality guy, he'll break things off BEFORE coming after you -He's going to keep you on the hook for as long as you'll allow it! πŸ’œ SUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! πŸ’œ FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO πŸ’œ RELATED VIDEOS: πŸ‘‰ Why He'll Text But Not Ask You Out: https://goo.gl/6pIlRb πŸ‘‰ How To Spot A Player https://goo.gl/H7p1w0 πŸ‘‰ Getting Over a Jerk & Getting Closure https://goo.gl/Doi4rX πŸ‘‰ Why Guys Like Crazy, Toxic Girls https://youtu.be/kmFwAPDln1I
Views: 184344 Shallon Lester
High School & College Dating Advice: How to Flirt To Get A Boyfriend
 
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What kind of girls do boys like? If you've never had a boyfriend and want to catch your crush's attention, follow these two tips GUARANTEED to make a boy notice you and like you! πŸ’œ GOT A LOVE QUESTION? πŸ’œ πŸ‘‰ Head to https://www.instantgo.com/shallonxo πŸ‘‰ Download the app and find me, ShallonXO, and click CHAT! πŸ‘‰ Get an answer within 24 hours--guaranteed! πŸ‘‰ Only $2 a message! πŸ’œ SUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! πŸ’œ ENGAGE: Check the Community tab for advice, polls, and more info on this week’s topic! πŸ’œ FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO πŸ’œ RELATED VIDEOS: πŸ‘‰ What Boys REALLY Want In A GF: https://goo.gl/B1mLDa πŸ‘‰ How To Reinvent Yourself: https://youtu.be/L_s-pOWZzhE πŸ‘‰ Breaking The Cycle Of Bad Relationships https://youtu.be/oWw5CQwtG2o πŸ‘‰ How To Build Confidence: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AR__8... πŸ‘‰ 5 Things Boys Hate To See On Social Media https://youtu.be/81X9yB8BRbA πŸ‘‰ How To Be More Than A Hookup: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3rUWt... πŸ‘‰ How To Make Friends In College: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o84G0...
Views: 82868 Shallon Lester
How To Get Over Someone For Good: Love Lessons From Selena Gomez's "Back To You"!
 
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Do you have that ONE guy you just keep going back to, who you can't get over for good? I'm taking some love lesson's from Selena Gomez's new song, "Back To You" from 13 Reasons Why (starring Katherine Langford, Brandon Flynn, Dylan Minnette, Alisha Boe, Justin Prentice, & Miles Heizer) to give you tips on how to get over someone once and for all! πŸ’œ GOT A LOVE QUESTION? πŸ’œ πŸ‘‰ Head to https://www.instantgo.com/shallonxo πŸ‘‰ Download the app and find me, ShallonXO, and click CHAT! πŸ‘‰ Get an answer within 24 hours--guaranteed! πŸ‘‰ Only $2.99 a message! πŸ’œ SUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! πŸ’œ ENGAGE: Check the Community tab for advice, polls, and more info on this week’s topic! πŸ’œ FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO πŸ’œ RELATED VIDEOS: πŸ‘‰Getting Over Someone You Never Dated https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZFYPBr02N20 πŸ‘‰Love Lessons From Shawn Mendes & Hailey Baldwin's Romance https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KPhisuvtROQ&t=1s πŸ‘‰Love Lessons From Hillsong Pastor Carl Lenz https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZTOMPbQOZOc&t=24s πŸ‘‰Love Lesson's From The Bachelor's Jared Haibon & Ashley Iaconetti https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zdTqJDaajVg&t=23s ~edited by Cole Hamilton 2018~
Views: 38308 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: How To Get Over Your Ex After A Break Up
 
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Can't move on after breaking up with your boyfriend? Here are three steps to help you move on from your ex and stop being in love with him! RELATED VIDEOS: --When to give up on your crush: https://goo.gl/CuVnLF --How to get over a jerk & get closure: https://goo.gl/eTiY1Y --Why boys suddenly disappear: https://goo.gl/CP7vyy **SUBSCRIBE for weekly tips from @AskShallon: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=shallonlester Leaving a comment? Be sure you follow me on Google+ so I can reply! Facebook – Follow me on Facebook to submit your love questions and get daily tips and style advice! https://www.facebook.com/shallonlester Twitter & Instagram: @ShallonXO
Views: 15917 Shallon Lester
Breakup Advice: An Easy Trick To Get Over Someone In 15 Minutes!
 
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Dumped or rejected by your crush or boyfriend? Or maybe you're just upset about something else? Here's the super simple phrase I tell myself to move on from the hurt and start feeling better within 15 minutes! πŸ’œ FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO πŸ’œ RELATED VIDEOS: πŸ‘‰ How To Build Confidence: https://goo.gl/bkL56u https://youtu.be/AR__81Yr-d0 πŸ‘‰ How To Enjoy Being Single: https://youtu.be/xeqDfJa2PXw πŸ‘‰ Getting Over A Jerk & Closure: https://youtu.be/fNQ3hjaz_Gk?list=PLDVxhJmW4ZaSe2UMfRHeliW16_BTjXBVn πŸ’œ CONTACT: Got a love question? Leave it here on YouTube ONLY as a comment or private message--no Instagram DMs! πŸ’œ SUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday!
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Break Up Advice: When To Give Up On Your Crush & How To Move On
 
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Not sure if you should keep trying to make a guy like you or give up on your crush and move on? Sometimes, no matter what you do, its just not clicking. Girl, its time to let it go - for your own sake. If your crush finds out that you like him, but doesn't ask you out then don't pursue it--preserve your dignity If you are still unsure, check out this video and I will break down when its time to give up on your crush. πŸ’œ GOT A LOVE QUESTION? πŸ’œ πŸ‘‰ Head to https://www.instantgo.com/shallonxo πŸ‘‰ Download the app and find me, ShallonXO, and click CHAT! πŸ‘‰ Get an answer within 24 hours--guaranteed! πŸ‘‰ Only $2 a message! πŸ’œ SUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! πŸ’œ ENGAGE: Check the Community tab for advice, polls, and more info on this week’s topic! πŸ’œ FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO πŸ’œ RELATED VIDEOS: πŸ‘‰ How To Get Over A Guy You Never Actually Dated https://youtu.be/ZFYPBr02N20 πŸ‘‰How To Get Over A Jerk https://goo.gl/Dy0LBy πŸ‘‰Why He Flirts If He Has A Girlfriend https://goo.gl/hOKFHV πŸ‘‰Why He’ll Text You But Not Ask You Out https://goo.gl/UYsPpJ πŸ‘‰The 2 Signs A Boy Likes You https://goo.gl/CcktxH
Views: 96594 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: 5 Things Boys HATE To See On Your Social Media!
 
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Here are five things you should NEVER post on Twitter, Snapchat, Instagram or Facebook! 1. SAD EMO STUFF: social media is a commercial for YOU, so make sure the message is "I'm in love with my life!" not "I'm miserable." 2. TOO MANY SELFIES: No more than 1-2 per week, and make sure you're posting other types of pics too. Diversify! 3. "I'M BORED": Bored people are boring. 'Nuff said. 4. CELEB OBSESSIONS: You loooove Justin Bieber? Cool, keep it to yourself. Celeb-centric posts and usernames make you look like a child, not a potential girlfriend! 5. OVERPOSTING: Too many posts makes you look image-obsessed and is a real turn off. Put down the phone and go live! Boys are intrigued by what they DON'T see, so leave a little mystery! πŸ’œRELATED VIDEOS: -The #1 Thing Boys REALLY Want In A GF https://goo.gl/YpnGCj -How to Become Popular: https://goo.gl/W18zeH -Why A Boy Stalks Your Instagram https://goo.gl/I1NqMb πŸ’œFOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO πŸ’œSUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! http://goo.gl/5gzrF9** πŸ’œCONTACT: Got a love question? Leave it here on YouTube ONLY as a comment or private message--no Instagram DMs!
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Ask Shallon: How To Act In A Relationship | How To Be a Good Girlfriend
 
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Did you just start dating a guy and aren't sure what to do? Here are some tips on how a girlfriend should act around her boyfriend--it's easier than you think! For more tips, follow me on Instagram and Twitter @ShallonXO
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Popularity Advice: How To Deal With Embarrassing Moments
 
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Do something super embarrassing? Humiliate yourself in front of your friends or your crush? Here's how to get over it! πŸ’œ FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO πŸ’œ RELATED VIDEOS: πŸ‘‰ How To Ditch A Bad Reputation https://youtu.be/i3IqJV8h5m4 πŸ‘‰Tips To Be Popular In High School: https://youtu.be/5yBviGYxiU8 πŸ‘‰How To Build Confidence: https://youtu.be/AR__81Yr-d0 πŸ’œ SUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! http://goo.gl/5gzrF9** πŸ’œ CONTACT: Got a love question? Leave it here on YouTube ONLY as a comment or private message--no Instagram DMs!
Views: 18309 Shallon Lester
Social Media Advice: 5 Tricks To Flirt With A Boy On Snapchat & Make Him Like You!
 
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Here are some easy tips to catch a boy's attention on Snapchat, flirt, and get him to ask you out! 1. Make your story AMAZING--every day of your life is the BEST day of your life. 2. Easy on the selfies & videos--no more than in a row. 3. Don't respond unless you KNOW a message is to you ONLY! 4. Don't always send him back a pic--make him work for it! 5. Open it, leave him on read, add to your story, wait until he sees it THEN respond! #Savage ⏩RELATED VIDEOS: -The 2 Signs A Boy Likes You https://goo.gl/CcktxH -How to Flirt & Make Him Like You: https://goo.gl/k1VeIK -Why He’ll Text You But Not Ask You Out https://goo.gl/UYsPpJ ⏩FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO ⏩SUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! http://goo.gl/5gzrF9** ⏩SUBMIT: Got a love question? Leave it here on YouTube ONLY as a comment or private message--no Instagram DMs!
Views: 65667 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: How To Know If You're In Love!
 
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Are you too young to fall in love? What does love feel like? Here's how to tell if it's just infatuation or the real thing! Related videos: --What it means when you feel scared of love: https://goo.gl/kaahMQ --How to become boyfriend girlfriend! https://goo.gl/UF4z3T --When you like a boy you've never talked to https://goo.gl/WDz7og **SUBSCRIBE for weekly tips from @AskShallon** https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester Facebook – Follow me on Facebook to submit your love questions and get daily tips and style advice! https://www.facebook.com/shallonlester Twitter & Instagram: @ShallonXO *IMPORTANT!* Make sure you're logged into Google+ so I can reply to your comments!
Views: 25076 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: What To Do When A Boy Likes Your FRIEND Instead Of You!
 
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Is your best friend dating your crush? Did he ask her out and she said yes even she KNEW you liked him?? Here's what to say to her, how to deal and how to keep from losing both the guy AND your BFF! πŸ’œRELATED VIDEOS: --How to stop being jealous of "perfect" girls: https://goo.gl/DWTZPL --How to flirt to get a boyfriend: https://goo.gl/4eIsPD --How to look & dress to attract boys: https://goo.gl/7Rb7gS --How to become popular: https://goo.gl/UHcYva πŸ’œFOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO πŸ’œSUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! http://goo.gl/5gzrF9** πŸ’œCONTACT: Got a love question? Leave it here on YouTube ONLY as a comment or private message--no Instagram DMs!
Views: 47824 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: My Crush Is Still Sad About His Ex Girlfriend
 
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If the guy you like is still all dark and twisty over his last break up, here's how to deal--and how to make HIM deal with it. Follow me on Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO
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Ask Shallon: When A Boy Will Only Text You, But Not Ask You Out!
 
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Do you Facebook chat, Snapchat, text, email or Gchat with your crush...but he doesn't talk to you in person? I'll tell you why he won't ask you out IRL and how you can fix it!
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Ask Shallon: The #1 Thing Boys REALLY Want In A Girlfriend
 
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What's the number one thing a guy wants in a girl? A great body? Big boobs? Smart? Funny? Quiet? Outgoing? Blonde? Constant sex? I polled hundreds of guys to get the answer--find out what a guy is truly after in a relationship, and the answer will shock you! ⏩RELATED VIDEOS: -The 2 Signs A Boy Likes You https://goo.gl/CcktxH -How To Build Confidence https://goo.gl/Coamaf -Where To Meet Boys https://goo.gl/fUJzT2 ⏩FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO ⏩SUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! http://goo.gl/5gzrF9** ⏩SUBMIT: Got a love question? Leave it here on YouTube ONLY as a comment or private message--no Instagram DMs!
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Ask Shallon: How To Be Less Shy!
 
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Feel awkward and anxious when you're at a party, in a group or talking to boys? Here's how to get over being shy and break out! Pro tip: literally no one cares what you have to say...and I mean that in a GOOD way! **SUBSCRIBE for weekly tips from @AskShallon** Follow me on Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO RELATED VIDEOS: --How To Flirt If You're Shy: https://goo.gl/c3joHP --How To Build Confidence: https://goo.gl/4MezM6 --What Guys REALLY Want In A GF: https://goo.gl/us0xuu --How To Tell If He Likes You: https://goo.gl/dHgpRI Got a love question? Leave it here on YouTube as a comment or private message--no Instagram DMs!
Views: 17468 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: How To Get a Boyfriend | Where To Meet Boys!
 
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Part two in my series on How to Get A Boyfriend. Want to date a boy but don't know where to find them? Here are a few places hot dudes could be lurking!
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Ask Shallon: Being Rejected By Your Crush
 
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How to deal with rejection when you ask out your crush and they say no!
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Ask Shallon: How To Build Confidence & Self Esteem
 
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Never had a boyfriend? Want to be popular and make friends? Can't get over an ex or breakup? The key: CONFIDENCE! Here's how to boost your self esteem! NEW! Follow me on Facebook to submit your love questions and get daily dating tips and style advice! https://www.facebook.com/shallonlester Twitter & Instagram: @ShallonXO
Views: 30613 Shallon Lester
FUCKBOY ADVICE: How To Spot A Player
 
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The guy you like talks to you, looks at you, sits with you...but does he also flirt with a lot of other girls? Does he have a reputation as a player? Is he JUST out to hook up with you, or does he really like you? Here's how to find out if you're different...or if he's playing you too! πŸ’œ GOT A LOVE QUESTION? πŸ’œ πŸ‘‰ Head to https://www.instantgo.com/shallonxo πŸ‘‰ Download the app and find me, ShallonXO, and click CHAT! πŸ‘‰ Get an answer within 24 hours--guaranteed! πŸ‘‰ Only $2.99 a message! πŸ’œ SUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! πŸ’œ ENGAGE: Check the Community tab for advice, polls, and more info on this week’s topic! πŸ’œ FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO πŸ’œ RELATED VIDEOS: πŸ‘‰6 Signs He’s A Fuckboy https://youtu.be/YUdFyqHlnys πŸ‘‰5 Steps To Get Over A Fuckboy https://youtu.be/Nw6X6Z0VdrQ πŸ‘‰The #1 Sign He’s A Fuckboy https://youtu.be/9cgy_7_dABU πŸ‘‰Getting Over A Jerk & Getting Closure https://youtu.be/fNQ3hjaz_Gk πŸ‘‰ Should You Post Sexy Pics On Social Media? https://youtu.be/QycAKEhRRVE πŸ‘‰ Why Guys Flirt When They Have A GF: https://youtu.be/zP1WZ4AkvPA πŸ‘‰ The REAL Reason Boys Ask For Nudes! https://youtu.be/Cj_yFrVt7WQ πŸ‘‰ The Do's And Don'ts of Sending Nudes: https://youtu.be/r18reTOUVzg
Views: 48603 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: How To Tell If Your Ex Wants You Back
 
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Did your ex boyfriend suddenly start texting you or flirting? Here's what he's REALLY thinking and how to tell if he wants to be friends, get back together...or just keep you around as a booty call! RELATED VIDEOS: --How to get back together with your ex: https://goo.gl/NyLOCb --Should you believe a guy who says he's changed?: https://goo.gl/ONZMus --How to get over your ex: https://goo.gl/wNrzjF **SUBSCRIBE for weekly tips from @AskShallon: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=shallonlester Leaving a comment? Be sure you follow me on Google+ so I can reply! Facebook – Follow me on Facebook to submit your love questions and get daily tips and style advice! https://www.facebook.com/shallonlester Twitter & Instagram: @ShallonXO
Views: 18356 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: How To Break The Cycle Of Bad Relationships & Why You're Attracted to Jerks
 
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Can't find love? Always getting dumped or heartbroken? Do you feel like you're caught in this cycle of toxic romances? Here's why: we date people who remind us of our most difficult parent! RELATED VIDEOS: --How to flirt to get a boyfriend: https://goo.gl/4eIsPD --How to look & dress to attract boys: https://goo.gl/7Rb7gS --How to be more approachable: https://goo.gl/FJfklw **SUBSCRIBE for weekly tips from @AskShallon** https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester Facebook – Follow me on Facebook to submit your love questions and get daily tips and style advice! https://www.facebook.com/shallonlester Twitter & Instagram: @ShallonXO *IMPORTANT!* Make sure you're logged into Google+ so I can reply to your comments!
Views: 11772 Shallon Lester
JEALOUSY ADVICE: How To Stop Being A Jealous, Clingy, Insecure Girlfriend! | Shallon Lester
 
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Do you feel like a clingy, jealous girlfriend? Are you always paranoid about other girls flirting with or stealing your boyfriend? Or does your boyfriend have one particular female friend who you think is secretly after him? I'll tell you who you should worry about and why being crazy and jealous will 100% drive your crush away! --First, remember that being jealous is the MOST unattractive thing you can do. I --Second, trust your instinct --Third, build your self esteem so you aren't so threatened by other people--know that you're awesome! πŸ’œ GOT A LOVE QUESTION? πŸ’œ πŸ‘‰ Head to https://www.instantgo.com/shallonxo πŸ‘‰ Download the app and find me, ShallonXO, and click CHAT! πŸ‘‰ Get an answer within 24 hours--guaranteed! πŸ‘‰ Only $2.99 a message! πŸ’œ SUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! πŸ’œ ENGAGE: Check the Community tab for advice, polls, and more info on this week’s topic! πŸ’œ FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO πŸ’œ RELATED VIDEOS: πŸ‘‰How To Get A Boyfriend In College: https://youtu.be/luv3SbJC6Ek πŸ‘‰The 1 Thing All Popular People Do: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Om12XbpVuCs&t=6s πŸ‘‰ 6 Signs He’s A Fuckboy https://youtu.be/YUdFyqHlnys πŸ‘‰5 Steps To Get Over A Fuckboy https://youtu.be/Nw6X6Z0VdrQ πŸ‘‰What To Do When A Guy Ghosts You https://youtu.be/rlFkmEAdNYg πŸ‘‰The #1 Thing Boys REALLY Want In A GF https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bZCDHlrlfn8&index=1&list=PLDVxhJmW4ZaQMJjztBFVpZl-Qbsy92RdC
Views: 16425 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: Meeting the Parents
 
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If there is one first impression you want to get right, its when you meet his parents for the first time. Do not underestimate the opinion of his parents, and especially the Mom. Here are some quick and easy tips to be in the good graces of Mom. Be Kate Middleton, not Linsday Lohan! - Always remember that Moms want their sons to be with the "safest" female possible. - Dress conservatively. ie. no smoky eye, full red lips, etc. - Bring a Gift. But choose your gift carefully. If you decide to get flowers, don't forget the vase! - Do NOT curse. Even if everyone else is cursing. - Always remember eye contact. Eye contact shows that you are respectful, interested, and attentive. - Highlight the things that you have in common, and downplay the things that you don't have in common. Good Luck! Leave a comment below and let me know how it goes! Related Videos: How To Not Be Nervous Around Your Crush or Date | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xRi_-k5hZjQ Dealing With Mixed Signals & A Confusing Crush | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sIkeddya81I When To Give Up On Your Crush ​| https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DpqGcGyDBGc **SUBSCRIBE for weekly love and dating tips from @AskShallon http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=shallonlester Facebook – Follow me on Facebook to submit your love questions and get daily tips and style advice! https://www.facebook.com/shallonlester Twitter & Instagram: @ShallonXO Make sure you a logged into Google+ for me to reply to your comments on YouTube.
Views: 17729 Shallon Lester
Flirting Advice: How To Talk To A Boy For The First Time | How To Approach Your Crush
 
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Have your eye on a guy but ZERO clue how to approach your crush? Here's how to talk to a guy for the first time and start a conversation even if you don't know him or have any classes together! πŸ’œ GOT A LOVE QUESTION? πŸ’œ πŸ‘‰ Head to https://www.instantgo.com/shallonxo πŸ‘‰ Download the app and find me, ShallonXO, and click CHAT! πŸ‘‰ Get an answer within 24 hours--guaranteed! πŸ‘‰ Only $2 a message! πŸ’œ SUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! πŸ’œ ENGAGE: Check the Community tab for advice, polls, and more info on this week’s topic! πŸ’œ FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO πŸ’œ RELATED VIDEOS: πŸ‘‰ Why He’ll Text You But Not Ask You Out https://goo.gl/UYsPpJ πŸ‘‰ How To Build Confidence: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AR__8... πŸ‘‰ 5 Things Boys Hate To See On Social Media https://youtu.be/81X9yB8BRbA πŸ‘‰ How To Be More Than A Hookup: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3rUWt... πŸ‘‰ How To Make Friends In College: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o84G0.. πŸ‘‰ The Do’s & Dont’s of Flirting on Social Media https://youtu.be/odnN01L-pm0 πŸ‘‰ 4 Rules For Texting With Boys: https://youtu.be/AgcdBt_gNMs
Views: 88980 Shallon Lester
Dating Advice: Dealing With Mixed Signals & A Confusing Crush
 
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Are you confused by your crush's behavior? Does the guy you like flirt with you one minute and ignore you the next? Here are some things you should know up front about dealing with mixed signals: - A guy may flirt with you, but may not actually want to date you. - Teenage boys and teenage girls are very different. - Protect yourself from the 'venom' Here are tips for dealing with mixed messages and how to tell if a boy likes you! πŸ’œ FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO πŸ’œ RELATED VIDEOS: πŸ‘‰Why He’ll Text You But Not Ask You Out https://goo.gl/UYsPpJ πŸ‘‰Boy Behavior Decoded! https://goo.gl/T6kRlq πŸ‘‰When To Give Up On Your Crush https://goo.gl/FICu97 πŸ‘‰The 2 Signs A Boy Likes You https://goo.gl/CcktxH πŸ’œ SUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! πŸ’œ CONTACT: Got a love question? Leave it here on YouTube ONLY as a comment or private message--no Instagram DMs!
Views: 83921 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: What It Means When A Boy Is Looking At You
 
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You notice your crush staring or looking at you in class, but does it mean that he likes you? I'll tell you how to decipher what he's really thinking, and how to make him take the next step! πŸ’œ GOT A LOVE QUESTION? πŸ’œ πŸ‘‰ Head to https://www.instantgo.com/shallonxo πŸ‘‰ Download the app and find me, ShallonXO, and click CHAT! πŸ‘‰ Get an answer within 24 hours--guaranteed! πŸ‘‰ Only $2 a message! πŸ’œ SUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! πŸ’œ ENGAGE: Check the Community tab for advice, polls, and more info on this week’s topic! πŸ’œ FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO πŸ’œ RELATED VIDEOS: πŸ‘‰ Stand Out To The Popular Guy https://youtu.be/pOyVIKvpl2w πŸ‘‰ How To Talk To A Boy When He's With His Friends: http://goo.gl/EbY2pB πŸ‘‰ Catching Your Crush's Attention: http://goo.gl/MOYF9E πŸ‘‰ How To Be More Approachable: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XvLSRS2EAGE πŸ‘‰ Dealing With Mixed Signals: http://goo.gl/kQY3z1
Views: 82569 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: How to Fake Confidence
 
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Never had a boyfriend? Want to make friends? Want to reinvent yourself and be popular? The key is confidence! But if you're shy and have low self esteem, here's how to act confident and outgoing, and how to build your self-confidence in the process! πŸ’œ FOLLOW: Snapchat, Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO πŸ’œ SUBSCRIBE: New videos every Friday! πŸ’œ CONTACT: Got a love question? Leave it here on YouTube ONLY as a comment or private message--no Instagram DMs!
Views: 37789 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: When You Start To Fall For Your Friend with Benefits!
 
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Having a Booty Call/FWB situation can be a valuable learning experience for us, however, this is not the time to start developing feelings for this person. FWB situations rarely turn into Happily Ever After. If you start to develop feelings for your Friends with Benefits, remember that it is only natural. Women communicate to build relationships. Men communicate to solve problems. The game is being played, so let me give you the tools to play the game and WIN. Related Videos: Ask Shallon: Why A Boy Suddenly Stops Liking You - youtube.com/watch?v=VnQJxvABtXE Ask Shallon: How To Tell A Guy You Like Him - youtube.com/watch?v=PkVHBG5kkyI Ask Shallon: When To Give Up On Your Crush - youtube.com/watch?v=DpqGcGyDBGc **SUBSCRIBE for weekly love and dating tips from @AskShallon: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=shallonlester Facebook – Follow me on Facebook to submit your love questions and get daily tips and style advice! https://www.facebook.com/shallonlester Twitter & Instagram: @ShallonXO Make sure you a logged into Google+ for me to reply to your comments on YouTube.
Views: 28370 Shallon Lester
Ask Shallon: How To Get a Popular Guy to Like You | High School Dating Advice
 
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Got a crush on a guy who every girl wants? Feel like he's out of your league? Here's how to flirt with a popular guy...and also why you're crushing on him in the first place!
Views: 40259 Shallon Lester