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Some insecure women are taking this video wrong saying it is superficial. Before you do your knee-jerk thumbs down, read the following. I guess Cara and I have to do a video about this. First of all, this is as far from superficial as it gets. People in the modern world see nothing but separation. They all say forget the outside- love only what's inside. The Asians have known for thousands of years that everything is connected, and the outside is a direct reflection of the inside. What someone eats is NOT separate from how they feel. Why do people eat bread, cereal, sugar and coffee? because it makes them feel good. But they pay the price. Most of the people caught up in the "poor me" victim mode need to read "Heal Your Face" http://www.HealFace.com I can tell so much about someone just by looking at their face. It speaks volumes. First of all, Cara and I do not have above average genetics. You should see the rest of her family. I was born with a weak immune system and almost died 3 times. I was choking to death because my lungs were filled with fluid and I was bleeding when I went to the bathroom. As a child I had terrible asthma and allergies, had to use an inhaler, had glasses thicker than a car windshield and could barely breathe. It took me 30 years to figure out it was almost ALL DIET RELATED. I learned about the effects of bread, pasta, ANYTHING made with wheat, dairy and sugar. This means ANYTHING baked in an oven. This meant chips, crackers, creamy salad dressing, bagels and wraps. Sugar is worse than cocaine. It took me years to learn to say no to concentrated sugars like fruit juice, agave and honey. Cooking food turns plant fiber into simple sugar. Cara figured this out on her own 30 years before I did. She looks the way she does because she's been living this way for 30 years. People cannot eat that stuff for 40 or 50 years and then expect things to turn around in a short while. Every single person I ever met who claimed to "eat healthy" but have problems was cheating. When I visited their house they had bread, cheese (even soy cheese is a joke), crackers, honey, fruit juice, they ate mainly cooked food and chose mainly sweet foods and carbs over bitter greens. Cara loves bitter greens and avoids sweet stuff. She is super active, works out, on her feet all day and maintains a positive attitude. When any man tried to make her feel bad, she immediately left and never looked back, not caring if she was penniless. Yes she had a child and even lived in her car for a while because she would not take shit from a man who didn't respect and appreciate her. One main reason women get breast cancer is because they were in a relationship that quenched her feminine identity, power and freedom. Again- the outer is just a reflection of the inner. How many people can now honestly say they are really healthy like that? So to answer the question "Would I still love Cara if she looked like Brigitte Bardot does nowadays"? The answer is ridiculous because Brigitte Bardot smoked like crazy, drank lots of alcohol and ate bad food. She looks the way she does because of her choices and I would never be with someone who does not respect themselves like that. Anyone can look good in their 20s and many also in their 30s- but after a while all that bread and cheese and milk and sugar catches up. Cara never allowed herself to be in a bad relationship with men or food- and as a result, it shows on the outside and will continue to do so as long as she continues her view of life. We are not afraid of wrinkles and do not consider them a gauge of attractiveness. But a thin healthy agile body is possible until the day we die and it has nothing to do with genetics. We are the result of the choices we make and I respect people's choices, but no one should feel helpless like a victim. The sexiest thing about anyone is confidence and life force. Some people need a good strong kick in the rear but even then, by the time they hit their 50s, old habits are hard to change. Bread, cheese and sugar are more addictive than cocaine. https://youtu.be/u9hETM84RU4