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Where to Meet Guys: The Definitive Answer // Amy Young

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Kat D (1 month ago)
"You can't swing a dead cat without hitting a man" 😂😂😂😂
Analeese Bell (1 month ago)
Well I see guys but not my age also another problem... my age!
Brooke Henne (2 months ago)
Okay but I don't want to seem thirsty or get embarrassed because I'm in my senior year of high school and people already dislike me and make fun of me
Noctulius (2 months ago)
I'll throw in my 2 cents as a guy with some experience approaching and being approached. First off, most of us are just as nervous about talking to women as women can be about talking to us. Yes, even the really good looking guys. I'm quite nervous every time I talk to a new girl that I like! But if a girl is welcoming and appreciates me taking the time to talk to her and shows it, it definitely helps to alleviate my nerves. Second, as far as "what to do"... girls, if you see a guy you like: Give him an invitation to approach you. That is, eye contact (this is easy; you're going to be looking at him already since you like him, so just do it more than once so he sees you looking and it doesn't look like you did it by accident), then give him a smile (if a girl I like does this I get butterflies, every time), and... that should be pretty much it! If the guy is the more courageous type he'll probably approach you after that. This has happened to me when I was riding on public transport, in fact. I looked up, a pretty girl was looking at me and gave me a nice smile, so I got up from where I was sitting, and went and initiated a conversation with her. Simple as that. It might take you some practice, just like it takes us men practice and trials and tribulations to develop the confidence that women love so much. ;-) That's all it should take, really. Chances are if the guy doesn't approach you after you do those two things he either 1) isn't attracted/has a girlfriend/not interested or 2) he's too nervous to talk to you. If you suspect reason 2 you can test the water a bit further and potentially bring him out of his shell just by saying a spirited "Hi!" and see how he reacts. Either way, if it doesn't work out, just move on. There's always new opportunities just waiting to be explored, so don't feel bad. As for Ms. Young's "YOU are the location" - this is really good advice. In fact, it's the best line of thought I've heard about this subject. You ARE the location. Look around you every day as you go about your tasks; life is dull and full of pain for a lot of us. But all the same, you never know when you can make something amazing happen. You have the power to change things for the better. So, inject a little romance and spirit into your life!
Daniel Hughart (2 months ago)
XxMimix Potato (3 months ago)
I aM gEtTiNg oLd *me even though im 11*
Wh at (3 months ago)
not everyone is extrovert tho. I dont wanna find anyone at parties lol. idk what to expect from someone that I find at bars or parties. sorrynotsorry
Kiwifix (3 months ago)
Avoid chicks who vlog
Ashley Hoebee-Elardo (4 months ago)
This is literally so good
millieshucks (4 months ago)
Public all girl school bro
Kailin Brown (5 months ago)
But, my "single girl blinders" are a family heirloom! 😂
Legend of Zelda (5 months ago)
Thank you.
michel Guevara (7 months ago)
50years of feminism means we won't approach you anymore, our desires have been criminalized, so your desires are moot. Good men are steering clear of screechy womanchildren like this woman. We cross paths, but that's your problem, we've decided to go our own way because there is no good reason to have a woman in our lives. We're everywhere avoiding you successfully. 😘
UESforeever (8 months ago)
Hahahah i love you and this
zadose (11 months ago)
I sing in a choir at my church.... old people and married people come up to me and say I sing beautifully ....EXCEPT HOT/HANDSOME SINGLE GUYS!!! WHY CAN'T GUYS COME UP TO ME AND SAY, "Wow, you sang really beautifully." OH HECK YEAH, that gives me a reason to talk to him.... but no guy ever comes up.... they just leave when all is done... Am I ugly or something???? Why don't guys wanna talk anymore?? X(
ThoseGoodVibes (11 months ago)
Send me your location let's focus on communication cause... I just need a time and place to call home.
Fox angel (1 year ago)
No no no all the guy I see are old and ugly I need young guy and hot
Shelby Chilingirian (1 year ago)
Girl seriously. You will find a first boyfriend. One day. Don't worry. So. Do not rush. It. Can't HURRY ur love. Trust me. I know Because you sound like a guy was going to be in a relationships. With any kind of men were in your class. U don't even think of 5 ways to get yourself a group of friends/ boyfriends I wasn't 100% sure if everybody wants to fall in love with Ur not a type of person who told you that you can still be a stranger in the first place doesn't mean you are ugly and mean. Or anything It is all you have do was open your eyes 😎😃😂🤣😀 I really understand how u would feel right now before I will give you a second. Opportunity as soon as possible
Yummy Yum Yum (1 year ago)
I need a decent man.i need to trade my husband in which I am in process of divorcing for the fact he is cheating on me and I don’t need to keep putting up with that.
Yummy Yum Yum (1 year ago)
I get you. I walk out of the house and get bombarded with men. Hitting on me constantly! I just don’t want to meet those men as they are pervs
Susan Smith (6 months ago)
How to trigger a man’s natural competitive drive and refocus it on winning your love simply by tapping into his male ego. MakeHimLoveYou5.blogspot.com
Miss Oli (1 year ago)
you made me happy today... :D
Anna Pegg (1 year ago)
I have to go to a all girl school so I can swing a dead cat and all I will find is my teacher 😒😂
Addison Rayes (3 months ago)
Anna Pegg hi
Grenalyn Klimp (1 year ago)
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cooleen fernando (1 year ago)
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fallen leaf. (1 year ago)
"you have to go out more!" ... Yeah that is not happening
caole88 (1 year ago)
Funny, I always say where are the men. It's true that they are everywhere. I guess I have to change my thinking. I do all those things, it's so true.
Salma Saloumi (1 year ago)
Awesome coach
Laquila Manning (1 year ago)
You are, HILARIOUS "house arrest" ! Amazing chica. Thanks for this, as always.
Diego Moreno (1 year ago)
Oh shit... the problem with many men is they don't want connection: they just want "Sum fuk".
Diego Moreno (1 year ago)
Guys are as scared on meeting girls as much as girls are..
Ms. Harris (1 year ago)
A few months ago I met a guy at the grocery store👍👎! I wasn't thinking about guys, 🙋🙍🙍I just was thirsty, 😓😓all I wanted was water😂😂! lol he started a conversation with me, but I think we are in different channels!! The point is that you never know when your next love☺ will meet you! That day I wasn't dressing nice! I was wearing an ugly dress👗👡! So there is no specific place to meet your next one! 😉😉 Nice Video
Leslie Borregard (1 year ago)
I always get the FUGLY ones, and OMG when I get I guy I like he's either a cheater or they just disappear WTF?
Tri Inferno (1 year ago)
i love boys!!!!!!!!1111
ginny Laliberte (1 year ago)
LMAO! You're killin' me! Swinging a few dead cats over here!!!!
Twostones00 (1 year ago)
The location is not the problem. The problem is your fucked up eyebrows. When a guy sees a woman with fucked up eyebrows it tells him you are a crazy woman. That is why they avoid you. Stop waxing your eyebrows. Waxing your eyebrows is self dis figuration, a psychosis.
Ms. Tang (1 year ago)
Uh, I am at college and I still don't know too many potential dating partners after 2 years.
chooeykins21 (2 years ago)
😂😂😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️✌🏻️✌🏻️✌🏻️ this is hilarious love it it's soooo true hehe single blinkers
Pat Riarchy (2 years ago)
Don't even concern yourself as to where guys are. You know how creepy and toxic men are. A Woman Needs a Man Like a Fish Needs a Bicycle. Your girlfriends will always love you more, always be there for you and understand you better. Besides, after 55 years (most guys whole lives) of females telling men what shit they are, men have finally realised that A Man Needs a Female Like a Fish Needs a Lobotomy
Syanaz BK (2 years ago)
What if ure a muslim asian living in the west lol
Denise Laga (2 years ago)
Thanks for the answer I was looking for!👀
Amir khan (2 years ago)
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What if u don't go clubbing....
David Kupper (2 years ago)
Sareeka Katkuri yeah..most of the time they are just getting bored from the marriage..
D Music correct n some guys who compliment u are married or just wanna have sex 😤
David Kupper (2 years ago)
Sareeka Katkuri i went on clubbing one time in ma whole life ( was last weekend though) I just turned 18. Had one good relationship but after that i never really had something with girls
How to approach a stranger
darkHorse (2 years ago)
I am really having a hard time believing that it is hard for girls to get guys.
sam coudin (3 months ago)
darkHorse well I'm 18 and I've never been in a relationship or had my first kiss
Linde Groenewoud (3 months ago)
darkHorse I’m 15 years old, give me advice. Where am I supposed to go.
Callutts (2 years ago)
I really don't run into many guys my age though? And if I do they're usually like a waiter or working somewhere, and act really formal. Like, I don't want to bother them.
Addison Rayes (3 months ago)
Callutts hi
David Kupper (2 years ago)
Callutts believe me, you will never bother anyone when you approach a guy haha
Saskia M (2 years ago)
An all girl's school ughh
Josh Beck (2 years ago)
Before I even watch this , a woman can meet a guy anywhere,.ok lets see what  old Ams is talking about.
Rami7605 (2 years ago)
+Piriathy lolol... I got preached in YT comment section lolololol
Piriathy (2 years ago)
Rami7605 you fucking dummy, in this vid she is literally telling women to get out of their "type" comfort zone and give many different types of men a chance. You are a fucking moron. Stop hating women and stop wanting to be a victim
Rami7605 (2 years ago)
can meet men anywhere. Men enough hot, enough rich, tall for her, etc probably not so easy
Morning Star (2 years ago)
you are so cute
BittyBallOfCurly (2 years ago)
my major is mostly women and so is my minor. in my major, classes may have only 1 or 2 guys! my dance exercise classes are female-only. i go to a latin dance class, and the guys are either middle aged, elderly, or in a couple. i walk into a cafe, and i often see the same thing. i live in a NYC, not manhattan, and i'm experiencing this and i'm just fed up! i used an online dating site for a few months and just finally agreed to go on a date with someone finally and it sucked. the few times i approached a guy, they had girlfriends or ended up not being interested!
Rouwiinator (2 years ago)
I thought the answer must have been a strip club for sure.
William Phox (2 years ago)
Is Amy against gay people? she always asume it is an opposite sex situation. (I am aware the majority of the world is straight and that she may want to focus on them). though i don´t care if she is against gay people cus i accept everyboddys oppinion :) hope Amy does that too and can mayby inspire the community to be more gay-friendly (in a passive way by refering her examples with "person" and not "he/she")
This bird backs bros (1 year ago)
WillyTheBuilder You need serious help
fallen leaf. (1 year ago)
PLEASE, UNDERSTAND: Not mentioning something does not automatically mean being against it.
fallen leaf. (1 year ago)
Why do you care... She is a straight girl She talks about what she knows Not assuming anything
Trish Drew (2 years ago)
WillyTheBuilder ffs, can't there be one channel on YouTube that doesn't talk about gay people, we already get enough of that shit.
gio957 (2 years ago)
You can meet them here in the comment section. Ladies hit me up if you're interested.
nani (2 years ago)
lol so true ...!! :D
Cristhian Cobas (2 years ago)
I do agree about this, but sometimes when you just approach some girl at the park, just to say hi, they are like "who are you, I don't know you". I've tried it oh so many times, just like "hey, what's up?" some of them wouldn't even say hi back... I'm pretty sure I'm not that horrid that they should avoid all contact with me... but it''s really hard, really, really, REALLY hard... As you said, it might be the "mind set" that nowadays most people are like "ooooh everyone is out there to get me, I must protect myself"
karinda karinda (2 days ago)
I am living in a town with 20.000 inhabitants. If I am smiling at a guy, he just say "hi", and smiles back with a "Should I know her? Ok, I was polite enough, so she doesn't know that I don't even know who she was" face. And I am like "dang, why,why,why???"
Brian Vo (1 year ago)
If they say "who are you, I don't know you", you are either physically unattractive to them or they are very closed minded people based on their personalities and experiences they endured. I feel like this happen to you in New York.
TamiAllTheWay (2 years ago)
A friend used to say how girls had it sooo easy. That all they had to do was sit in a place (like a coffee shop or a park) long enough and eventually, a guy will hit on you. He may not be your type, but you're guaranteed a guy will approach you.
Shelby Kemp (2 years ago)
I laughed so hard at this one 😂 you explain things so well
hetrogamr84 (2 years ago)
What age are you in Earth years. I'm 42.
Nicodemo Lalli (2 years ago)
im down to bone hahaha
Callia (2 years ago)
I've gone to social events and people are with their S/O. Even frickin' Comic Con is so -popular- mainstream these days that couples go together. It's quite frustrating.
Van Thieu (2 years ago)
HAHAHAHA~! The Amazon! :D is definitely not the place to go and meet guys, you can definitely ask Diana (Wonder Woman).
Michael Nicholas (2 years ago)
I decided to change "guys" to the word "evolution". There's literally an opportunity grow oneself at any moment in the day, the person just needs to open their eyes.
Michael Nicholas (2 years ago)
It's analogous to many other things actually in terms of the availability of the associated opportunity, there's very few things that are worthy of chasing which can't be worked on right at this moment. That is at least for the average technologically savvy person.
ClaudiaJuliet (2 years ago)
The problem isn't that I don't see men, it's what do I do after I have seen them? I see cute guys almost every day, for example: on the train - impossible to start an conversation because they are just looking at their phone( a bomb could go off next to them, they would still not look up), in school, maybe even in your class(!) - however everyone just hangs out with people they know(like if they are in your group it's easier to socialise), so if I would go up to guy that I find interesting, but the only thing we have in common is that we are in the same class(with 60 other people), I would be the weird strange girl who just decided to talk to him(yes, he would think that), at the grocery store - everyone is busy buying stuff, no one has time or is in the mood to flirt. So..what's step 2?
Wh at (3 months ago)
+_____ Dont be a creep and stare at them for like 5 mins straight lol but look at them in short terms and smile and u know repeat :)
_____ (3 months ago)
+Wh at But what if they think that's creepy and needy 😅
Wh at (3 months ago)
the key is to be flirty and get by hem to talk to you. body language is important. smile at him, be cute and nice you know. catch his attention :))
Big Boss telugu Show (6 months ago)
ClaudiaJuliet hi friend
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AndreaLissetteReyes (2 years ago)
the intro lolol I died... "where can't you" haha! great video.
H Z (2 years ago)
okay okay! i get it omg aaaahhhhh x( lol
Yousaf Chaudhary (2 years ago)
You should do a collab advice video with simple pickup
Victoria S. (2 years ago)
It's actually a good idea, I could use a break from Mantra Monday series. Yay to the new format, whatever you wish it to be!
Shola Eniobamo (2 years ago)
"ugghh bone me!" lmdalsmdafnoanfs LOLOLOL AMY
Valerie Serbu (2 years ago)
You're so awesome! :-)
Hifza Khan (6 months ago)
You are also awesome Valerie serbu
Diego Lozano (1 year ago)
Valerie Serbu i wanna meet you
AJ118 (2 years ago)
AMY. Love you.
NomadiCrafter (2 years ago)
Elly Gee (2 years ago)
OMG I friken needed this!
Hannah Grace (10 months ago)
Elly Gee same
Beautiple (2 years ago)
good men are hard to find and even harder to get. just don't be passive as a girl- that is my truth.
Addison Rayes (3 months ago)
no, you have a wrong myth
Baby G (2 years ago)
1:30 they will
Sabina M (2 years ago)
You are a right. However ... the country I live in don't have guys that are my type. They are not passionate, they are cheap ...and they are not masculine. Whenever I travel to countries where men are more masculine I find it easier to connect to them. :(
polutanka (1 year ago)
Same here (NW Europe)
Physionic (2 years ago)
+Sabina Мёд I think it's an interesting problem. I hope you find your resolution.
XxPiscesxAng3lxX (2 years ago)
+Sabina Мёд what country do you live in?? If the men you are interested in are cheap and are not passionate you dumped them, but you should focus more on the guys character because what you see is what you get. And passionate like how, In what way??
Sabina M (2 years ago)
+Omni Focus Fitness I don't live in USA. I wish I did ...  I know this comment is me complaining but I genuinely feel this way. I think culture plays a big role as well.
Physionic (2 years ago)
Sucks to live in the good ol' USA... (The above comment was a joke - USA is great, etc, etc.)
Krzysztof Janczar (2 years ago)
Dear Miss Amy :) i just found Your channel recently ( yes, livin' under some rock ) and i honestly must admit that it's a damn good watch, great material - funny and informative ( yes - for the guys ) but at the same time i must say that You are so wrong on so many things :( ...anyway, You have a new sub - thumbs up and keep the "good" work... we're all douche-bags after all :) Best - Chris
SpotofNerds (2 years ago)
GalactusSpartan (2 years ago)
Dust bunnies they get into all the nooks and crannies.
Hiral Desai (2 years ago)
omg!!! I love dust bunnies. they are also called soot bunny
Serafin Hikes (2 years ago)
Meeting guys - go to the gym. Meeting girls - go to the yoga studio?
SWIFTzTrigger (2 years ago)
The serious lifters lift in the gym, not interested in the attention seeking women there.
Piriathy (2 years ago)
ppl don't go to the gym to hookup they go there to exercise.
Philly28 (2 years ago)
Amy, Monday's suck..... But you make them suck a whole lot less!! Thank you!😘
김민경 (2 years ago)
I love your video
John Rawlings (2 years ago)
I am quite happy to meet women for conversations. As a happy single man I am more than happy to keep women in the friend zone. So ladies, I am here for an intelligent conversation. :)
John Rawlings (1 year ago)
Piriaty I proudly wrote 2 published articles about my admiration of women's intelligence so I can assure you I am far from a victim. I am not appropriately dressed until I wear a smile and I count my blessings not my problems. :)
Piriathy (2 years ago)
quit being a wannabe victim
John Rawlings (2 years ago)
+Chloe Rissenberg  Cloe, I honestly couldn't give a stuff what you say about me LOL The mindless conformity of social media usually say that about my ideologies on women anyway. :)
Venim85 (2 years ago)
+Chloe Rissenberg If he's attractive, it's cute. If he's unattractive, it's creepy. lolz
Chloe Rissenberg (2 years ago)
+John Rawlings creeper much? lol ;)
CoDLover7771 (2 years ago)
AMY - Please do a "where to meet girls" for the boys in your audience <3
karinda karinda (2 days ago)
Go on board game sessions, yoga, zumba, hula classes, coffees, language courses.
zadose (11 months ago)
church, if you're in that same religion.
Jesse Kahler (2 years ago)
The trick is to focus on what you enjoy. By going to places you enjoy, you'll meet women there that share the same interest. You can strike up a conversation and bam...you guys are dating.
Physionic (2 years ago)
+Duncan Clarke There are no rules. Be polite, be yourself, be sure. Some people will like you, some people will not.
DanTuber (2 years ago)
+Duncan Clarke you just ruled out every place.

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