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Is it a bad idea to date a younger man? Should you date a younger man #askRenee

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Is it a bad idea to date a younger man? Should you date a younger man? #askRenee Dating a younger man because you are an older woman is not a bad thing! Here are my tips to know if it is a bad idea to date a younger man. FREE GUIDE: Are You Dateable?! - https://go.reneeslansky.com/are-you-dateable ====== Let's talk dating a younger man: We all know that not all relationships are about being with someone of the same age group. In fact some of the most successful ones throughout history and even presently have had significant age gaps. But what are the expectations and reality of dating a younger man? Is it a bad idea to date a younger man ? Should you date a younger man? Here are my tips : 1) Age isn't always a measure for compatibility but it can affect whether or not you want the same things and are on the same page 2) Men and women emotionally mature at different ages - so therefore you may react and relate to situations differently causing lack of unity. 3) Are you ready to commit to someone who may be at a different stage of life ? - Talk about your wants and needs in regards to settling down or family. 4) Younger men will have different energy and hormonal levels which can actually be a good thing! There is nothing wrong with dating a younger man and it's a stigma that needs to be broken. As long as you both feel fulfilled then do what works for you both. Love Renee x ======================================================== WORK WITH ME || Hi, I’m Renee Slansky and I help women accelerate their soul mate into their lives whilst also falling in love with who they are and living a life full of happiness and purpose. Follow me : @reneeslansky Want to schedule a call with me to do just that? Click the link below! https://go.reneeslansky.com/starthere P.S.: I also help men maximise their potential, build their confidence and find a woman who values them My Blog || http://thedatingdirectory.co My Courses || http://bit.ly/programsbyrenee FREE STUFF FOR WOMEN || Get access to multiple free guides, masterclasses, e-books and resources here: http://bit.ly/freefromrenee Single Ladies, Join Our Private Facebook Group- Worth The Wait : https://www.facebook.com/groups/worththewaitgroup/ FREE STUFF FOR MEN- || Teaming up with The Attractive Man, here are some free cheat sheets to help you gain confidence and approach women: http://bit.ly/freefromrenee FOLLOW ME || Facebook : https://www.facebook.com/reneeslanskyfanpage/ Twitter : https://twitter.com/ReneeSlansky Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/reneeslansky/ Pinterest : https://www.pinterest.com.au/askReneeSlansky/ About Renee Slansky || About This Channel Renee Slansky TV is a spin-off of The Dating Directory- the number one dating and relationship blog in Australia. This channel is here to educate, inspire and uncomplicate love! Renee Slansky is a professional dating and relationship coach, speaker and TV presenter who is on a mission to bring more love education to the world. OUR SITES || http://reneeslansky.com http://thedatingdirectory.co WE POST|| Several times a week! GOT A QUESTION || email us at [email protected] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IIVWKvE6Sbo&feature=youtu.be
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hannah margaret (11 hours ago)
so i’m 19 and i’m kinda falling for a 16 year old
Sadaf Nawaz (2 days ago)
I am 30 i like a guy who is 25 i was scared that i am elder than him but this video made be felt better
Renee Slansky (2 days ago)
go for it , that isn't too much of a gap :)
moonlight infinite (4 days ago)
I dont mind age gaps but i dont like the whole mid life crisis thing. You know dating young people because you are past your prime and feel bad. I think 10 years 8s the most. Women in their 40s/50s shouldnt be talking to 18-24 years olds.
Horatio Huffnagel (8 days ago)
Youre not old. you can date whoever. Wow 7 years that is nothing
Music Oven (9 days ago)
Question please help me.. In my life I have never dated a girl but the I saw her I fell in love because of her kindness and the beauty unexpectedly I didn't know that she's elder than me for 2 years. Still we chat as friends but I'm really scared to propose her whether she will reject me. Cuz she doesn't know my age she keeping asking me the age I was refusing by changing the subject but if she rejects I'm a person who cannot bare the sadness cuz I'm really dying for her. Can you please advise me about it. I love her alot.
Renee Slansky (7 days ago)
Ok so you are infatuated with her , you aren't involve because you haven't gotten to know her that well. Bring value to her and focus on being confident , making her feel safe and at ease and that should make her warm to you.
Hannah Godfrey (11 days ago)
I'm 23 and been interested in a guy who's 18..
moonlight infinite (4 days ago)
Ha ha you guys are in the 18-24 young adult category. There is barely a difference between you too. Enjoy
Renee Slansky (7 days ago)
Great! Go for it !
Tracey Brown (24 days ago)
Love for me at its best I'm 52 my heart is 35 a twenty yr gap we have a lot in common * we can talk about anything something u mention in yo viedo about communication which I to think is important above anything I've been with my heart only for 2yrs & counting so we still fresh but I'm hoping to with this heart of mine maybe become his wife but for now we have to take one day at a time but I thank u for this viedo it was helpful !!!
Genevieve Reindl (27 days ago)
Should you date a younger man? HELL NO. They have no idea how to date a woman or treat her well. Be there done that definitely a hard pass.
Mahmoud abd elhay (1 month ago)
Im 43 years old I'm from Egypt I looking for older women
Great older is better and bolder 👌
Crazcompart (1 month ago)
First take a moment and ask around, "Why aren't you younger folk going for one another instead?" If you hear output that suggests something in the department of being mutually selfish, irresponsible, lazy, and entitled - Now, what do you think is going to happen if these "young-uns" get their claws on you? Oh, I'm sure the emotional thrill (and even the sexual experiences) with a "daring young whatever" might be exciting, ditto memorable, but when you have absolutely no more to offer, somebody's definitely getting tossed under the bus, and it sure isn't THEM!
Brent bee (2 months ago)
No. Theyre losers.
Virgo editzz (2 months ago)
Somone help. I’m currently dating this guy he’s 1 grade smaller than me. He’s an amazing person only problem is he told me he was the same age as me but only a few months younger..I recently found out when we where on the phone that his brother told him he was a year younger and I heard. So we are 1 year and a few months apart. I’m so stressed out
Renee Slansky (2 months ago)
That's not a very big age gap , so I would relax and focus on what makes you compatible and enjoy his company :)
Bich Pham (2 months ago)
There's a boy who is 4 years younger than me said he liked me , well he's cute so I like him but my graduation exam is coming soon and I'll study in the university , and he lives in my school so if we date we won't have much time together , now I'm confused and don't know what to do :((((
Mojo Khan (2 months ago)
+Bich Pham It's crazy. I grew up in a area where there were many single divorced women and they were looking for fun with young guys. It's crazy how easily they would flirt with you. I never planned being with a older woman espeically marrying one. Me and my wife hit it too fast and rushed into the marriage. I mean we did get married in a chapel like those vegas type where you can get married on the spot with a few hundred to pay. I guess I didn't realise how things changed within weeks in our marriage.
Bich Pham (2 months ago)
Mojo Khan wow :))))
Bich Pham (2 months ago)
Mojo Khan wow :))))
Mojo Khan (2 months ago)
+Bich Pham with my wife she looks good for her age at 41 for a woman who just had four kids within three years and she has a plus size type body. I'll be 31 soon and she still looks like my age. If people don't know us they'll think I'm older because I shave my head. I've been with few older women since I left school at 16. I haven't been with a woman my age since my last girlfriend at school. I've been with older women like 20 years older. Oldest I was with was 50 years old.
Bich Pham (2 months ago)
Mojo Khan yeah , he looks older compare to his age bc he's really tall
box of chocolates QuEen (3 months ago)
Question. Pleaseee help. I like this guy and we are both 15 but I turn 16 first.. I know that Its not a big deal but guys mature slower so do you think that we have a chance at a long term relationship if we get together or would he end up changing as he goes through puberty?
nopochki (2 months ago)
cant tell if you are trolling
box of chocolates QuEen (3 months ago)
Renee Slansky thank you SO much!!
Renee Slansky (3 months ago)
Everybody is always changing and evolving , and at that age it's hard to predict a long term relationship when you both are young and have a lot to go and grow through. I would take it slowly and get to know his character ...don't be in a rush to have a commitment from someone you are still getting to know x
J Crash (3 months ago)
Is all about chemistry. Simple.
Ashleigh Leeann (3 months ago)
I'm here, making a 4 year age gap a big deal. But reading these comments makes me feel a bit better
LogosTheos (27 days ago)
My wife is 4 years older. So...
Mojo Khan (1 month ago)
+Lucie 2 years is nothing compared. Unless it was back in school. I dated a girl 3 years older then me when I was in school. My wife is 11 years older then me and people make it like she's 20 years older.
Lucie (1 month ago)
Literally me, and it’s only 2 years. Well this has made my mind up on what to do 🤷🏼‍♀️
tetannia levy jennings (1 month ago)
I'm making a 4 year age gap a big deal too😪... I really like the guy.
Mojo Khan (2 months ago)
+Bich Pham 4 years isn't as bad. My wife is 11 years older and it don't seem that bad but the problem is she use to be my teacher back in school so people who know us easily criticises our age gap just because she use to be my teacher that makes her like way older then 11 years. Thank god we're moving away from this area. Hopefully our new surroundings no one will judge.
Native Star (3 months ago)
How she’s beautiful think I’m ask her out, I’m a younger guy 😏😉😎
Sebastian V (4 months ago)
I’m 27 and my best friend was an older woman of 35 years, she broke my heart when she rejected me for an older man that’s 20 years her senior. What’s odd is that I was always attracted to women that are younger than me but this older woman meant the whole world to me. Now she’s going to have kids with him soon and it was painful to hear that, I had no choice but to cut her off from my life. She’s been wondering what’s going on with me but I think it’s best to move on and find a younger woman or perhaps another older woman.
Kazzianni Ceballos (4 months ago)
Kazzianni Ceballos (4 months ago)
Kiss me baby please 👅💋
ScytheReaper (3 months ago)
Ill kiss you homie. No homo, but kiss from reaper is nice.
Plamen Panchev Studios (4 months ago)
@Renee Slansky #Question Do you think it is okay for a 31-year-old guy to date 16-year-old girl? I wanted to date that kind of hottie 2 years ago and she told me that she is too young for me and go to date women my age. Then I thought whether or not I should date younger women, and if they are 10+ or 15+ years younger most of the time the emotional maturity level is very different. Then I asked many guys, kind of my mentors and they suggested that it is fine as long as the girl is mature enough to date older guys. And that is my response now: You are right! You probably couldn’t handle my experience level? haha So what are your thoughts on this subject and when are you coming to Plovdiv, Bulgaria to teach you how to light your video sets? Lol
der fehler (8 days ago)
брато, не знам конечно ли ти се занимава със шеснайсет годишна. попросту 15г. са твърде немало...
Plamen Panchev Studios (4 months ago)
+Renee Slansky Make Sense! I've had to learn that the hard way. Lol
Renee Slansky (4 months ago)
I think that that sort of age gap probably isn't the healthiest , she's still a teenager and going through school ... if she was 19 or 20 it would be a different story , but at such a young age it almost doesn't seem appropriate ...IMO
Fernando Jo Jo (4 months ago)
In Australia 16 is underage. . Becareful
David Jerome (4 months ago)
A 45 year old woman dating a 30 year old? That will never work!
Rose Hazeart (1 month ago)
i am dating a 30-year old, and am close to 60. He pursued me and we completely enjoy each others company and our communication continues to push us together. We are learning about ourselves and each other. It is wonderful. Even if we don't marry, which is a distant thought, we are very good friends, and were even before we dated. Even my children are saying it is up to each person to find the person they are happy with. Age makes no difference, it is like Bich says...it is compatability that is the most important.
abhi's clashing! (2 months ago)
Mojo Khan congratulations buddy
Mojo Khan (2 months ago)
+J Crash Actually been together four years. Been married three years and six months.
J Crash (3 months ago)
+Mojo Khan, I know is late but congratulations on the kids and your lasting marriage. 4 years :)
Mojo Khan (3 months ago)
I'm 31 and I'm married to a 41 years old who use to be my teacher. We've been together for four years and been married over three years and we've had 4 kids including twins during that time.
Jeremy Watson Jr. (4 months ago)
Sorry for late comment Because I hear this video so seriously and I say everyone forget the little age Gap. If someone loves u so much so u accept it. I lost this chance but u all have a chance all the best!!!!
Jim Mank Jr. (4 months ago)
Hi I have a question I'm going to be 62 this month I have a lot of women that want to go out with me that are from there 20s to there 30s I know that there's a big age difference they tell me age is just a number well and I find that most of them have had a relationship with guys close to their age and they cheated on them so is it really a good idea to date someone so young they all want kids so they want to have sex well I'm not sure about marring someone so young thinking about what other people will think I want to meet some of them but to tell you the truth it's a little scary it will feel like dating my daughter
Jim Mank Jr. (2 months ago)
Well I talked it over with my girlfriend and she was really pissed about what you said I won't repeat it but we are in love and nothing will change that and I have no problem with having kids so we are going to go for it anyway thanks for the advice
Jim Mank Jr. (4 months ago)
+Renee Slansky thanks
Renee Slansky (4 months ago)
I think you have to ask yourself do you feel compatible with women who are 30+ years younger than you? Chances are the energy levels will be different and they will want to have children eventually or at least know that is an option . If you are attracted to younger women why not try someone in her 40's and 50's?
Plamen Panchev Studios (4 months ago)
@Renee Slansky No, if the younger man is me. Lol
Vijay V (4 months ago)
Renee you're adorable. Ok.You have made valid points and they all make sense. I guess the minds and body chemistries have to match. I guess It's the same with same -age couples. Am I wrong in saying that at the end of a day if love is true and selfless the hearts win the race. And life is stranger than fiction. It's a puzzles that puzzles itself. Can never know how it can get Cupid to play magic. But I see a risk of the younger woman or man getting pulled out by their age groups. Example - a younger woman might say , "WTH, he deserves me and not that older woman". And seduction starts. And the other way round. I mean other jealous younger energies will try to grab. Reminds me of a Dolly Parton song 'Jolene'. " Don't take away my man just because you can'. But if love is strong...

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