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When it came to finding love in New York, Amber Soletti, a 42-year-old founder of OnSpeedDating.com and SingleAndTheCity.com, had no luck dating older guys or men her own age. While they were “well-established and articulate,” she wasn’t physically attracted to them. Now, the NYC event planner throws a monthly cougar party with a 100 person waitlist. #dating #cougar #cougars #expert #matchmaker #party #onlinedating #speeddating #nypost #newyorkpost The New York Post is your source for breaking news, news about New York, sports, business, entertainment, opinion, real estate, culture, fashion, and more. Catch the latest news and gossip here: https://nypost.com/video/ Follow The New York Post on: Twitter - https://twitter.com/nypost Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/NYPost
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mega0876 (7 days ago)
So women are cougars and men are perverts . who understand this planet?
carniarrow (2 months ago)
I recently met a guy who is 12 years younger. In recent years, I have ended up dating younger guys. When I was younger, I went for guys much older. I do look much younger than my age. My current catch doesn't have a problem with it. I do. I'm trying to overcome it. He is a nice person and we do rhyme in many aspects. This is quite encouraging and only time will tell. Wish me luck.
hana1cd (3 months ago)
That is NOT a cougar
Guess Who (3 months ago)
4 years will be maximum for an OK for a guy but above that they just wanted her money...FACTS
Emily Greene (5 months ago)
Younger men don't do it for me. Even if they are mature, like some older men are, they just are a turn off. In my eyes, they are like my brothers and nothing more. Perhaps, that's why I get hit on, because I treat them like a sister treats a brother - although if I think about that, that's really creepy - actually. Either way, I don't mind being an older sister to them, but I prefer older men to marry
M T (1 month ago)
Emily Greene I like you thought, and you have a pretty face👍, if you like we can chat to get to know each other more☎️📧, hope you do 🤝
zaneyone1 (6 months ago)
Age is only a barrier. If two people like each other...go for it.
Gorilla Reader (7 months ago)
i dated a 38 year old woman ,she staarted pressing for marriage i dumped her went with a younger one.Older women are just nice pump and dump
Groot Billyclub (7 months ago)
So wrong it’s not even funny. Your practice for us.
Alpha Magus (7 months ago)
These old washed up hags are delusional. They need to date older men like they did when they were younger. Younger guys need to wise up and leave these hags alone.
SIgmaThePrince (2 months ago)
AphaMagus I’m a 41 y.o. and reading the other comments from these cougars, no wonder women in their 50’s always trying to know personally. I don’t do old mountain cougars cats. You 100% correct bro.
Dawn Charlonne (8 months ago)
I am in a relationship with a younger man I am 57 he’s 43 and he is a Sargent in the Army! He and I have connected in a very loving way and our family are thrilled for us! I am waiting patiently for him to come home to me so we can spend the rest of our lives together!❤️ Age is nothing but a number! We can’t keep our hands to ourselves and we are both faithful to each other!! So if you’re an older woman and you are attracted to a younger man and he’s attracted to you...Go for it! It’s no one else’s business but yours!
Cristina .Filipe (8 months ago)
I don't know I really am totally off I've dated pretty much younger men , I never really wanted kids, I once dated a much younger one , I was 29, asked if he wanted children id like to try we were 2 years together, he said he definitely wants kids, I was ok with it, but he left me, I wasn't old at the time, we had the best sex ever he said he will never find another one like me, I ever , great amazing friendship, both hard working, sex amazing always off the charts, openness, fun times, all home activities we loved all the same things, yet, 6 months later he left me, after that I continued seeing younger because even when I try my age or aprox no one believes in ,like 35, or later 40, now 48, no man believes they think I'm much younger, but very very funny , loyal I love people I love making people around me confortable, but any young guy I've been with leave...im wondering all the time, what am I doing wrong, please feel free to reply any young man out there and help me with the mystery??? they all say I'm perfect, incredible , BUT then why?? no need to be gentle tell me like it is, excuse my bad english too, nit a native, but there it is.....thank you. To anyone who replies
M T (1 month ago)
Cristina .Filipe Life is full of surprises, you learn more as you go, can't say all young ones are the same, but generally speaking majority are flippers and could be the reason to gain what it was in their mind then go away. You sound as a sweet lady with a nice heart👍. If you like to chat to a friend📧☎️, you got one right here, I am not the young one, but let's see🤝
Chika O (8 months ago)
You have to take young men as a pinch of salt. They can change their mind at any given time, they are still evolving and finding themselves. They can switch their mind like the wind and many factors can influence them. Also, be aware some can change their mind because they might have talked to their mum about you. Their mum's can advice them not to be with you because of your age, they can tell them to just enjoy the sex with you and not to take the relationship any serious. When, they have had the fun with you they will just leave without any explanation. Also, they will talk to their friends with you and what they say to them, if it's negative it can make them change their minds against having a long term relationship with you. Just be aware, some young men can just be using you just for their sexual experience. Take time to get to know the man before you get sexually involved. Time will always show the man's true intentions and his true character.
Sally Sigler (9 months ago)
I know! Eight years, big deal; I was in a relationship with a guy 1/2 my age; 50/25! More recently, more than 1/2!
Gratitude (10 months ago)
I will certainly sign up to this channel. My boo is 18 years younger. I see myself with a younger man for some reason. It is them initiating not me , so perhaps the energy between us is on the same wave length. I also have younger friends .
Dawn Charlonne (8 months ago)
I am 57 and my sweet man is 43! And he can’t seem to get enough of me!! I was engaged to a wonderful man who passed away and he was 3 years older than me! I was so alone and he pursued me! He is a widow his wife died from cancer.. He has a daughter who is 16! I haven’t met her yet and to be honest I am a bit nervous about it! My own daughters are both thrilled for me! They just want me to be happy and he does make me so happy!!
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Rouchdi Fathi (11 months ago)
Why the young men love the older women do you wonder why the young men are attracted by the older women? It takes all sorts to make a world, and the old women have a particular charm for the men(people). Besides being independent, they know what they want, they have some experience(experiment), are more opened here is some of the reasons which make them so attractive. It could also interest you: why the women love the married men(people) Stages to be followed: 1 The young men love the mature women because they know much better how to check(control) their feelings. They are adults and their behavior is more reasonable.
Sumit Raj Dixit (11 months ago)
will always love to do the same...but not possible here in India...unlucky me ..
Vijay Patil (5 months ago)
Its possible dude i am 31 maaried to a 43 old lady
Alejandro Raines (11 months ago)
8 years difference? thats nothing
I am 23 years old Im study at the Faculty of Economics. I love older women because they know the meaning of true love. I hope to meet a respectable lady. She believes in love for adults. She marries me and we live happily together in a small house full of love. How beautiful is that. Love with a great older woman ❤️ is my dream
I am 23 years old Im study at the Faculty of Economics. I love older women because they know the meaning of true love. I hope to meet a respectable lady. She believes in love for adults. She marries me and we live happily together in a small house full of love. How beautiful is that. Love with a great older woman ❤️ is my dream
Claudia J. (1 year ago)
If you are both happy then who cares!! 8 years doesn't seem that much of a difference.
Jose B. (1 year ago)
Lmao. No guy wants a old used up vagina with miles of dick on it. These women are delusional.
Mike Sanchez (1 year ago)
It just depends what you feel in your heart
clara (1 year ago)
Early 40’s and he is early 30’s please that’s nothing you both are adults
Ella Roberts (1 year ago)
Hey girls! Enjoy it until last. Why not? It's the 21st century. Go for it cougar ladies!!!
moorish boy (1 year ago)
a cub here!pmme 😆
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charissecoal (1 year ago)
I hate the term “cougar” as it suggests being a predator...i never viewed it as being desperate. Older men get “sugar daddy” which sounds cute and nonthreatening but older get lumped with animal hunting creature of the wild
Andy M (8 months ago)
nvshd you're looking way too much into that.
Navak (10 months ago)
No way, "cougar" sounds like you're fit and healthy and "sugar daddy" sounds like a sleazy old donkey who is only as good as his money.
Eureka loyalty (1 year ago)
Love who you love my ex was 19 I'm 23
Greg Hammond (1 year ago)
Her 34 year old train engineer!!
Greg Hammond (1 year ago)
Yep this 34 year old is hanging on to her tight!
Greg Hammond (1 year ago)
Yep I'm 56 he's 39! Youngest was 28
Violet Rose (1 year ago)
Eight years is not a lot of difference
Yellow (10 months ago)
Depends on how old the youngest of them is. 19 and 27 is not the same as 46 and 54. It's relative.
Sankoun Gassama jr (1 year ago)
My x she is older than I, I'm 25 she was 41 but I attract to older woman because most of than are mature and have a goal in life...
Stargate Orion (1 year ago)
Sankoun Gassama jr wow!!
DJCastle (1 year ago)
Sankoun Gassama jr bro last year when I was 25 I was with a 50 yr old. Dude, talk about magical.
Brandon Bryant (1 year ago)
Good job honey and you are very sexy and I'm happy for you smart women.
jordan wang (1 year ago)
just because you are older doesn't mean you are a cougar. A cougar is someone who is actually sexy and desirable...
Tiger Tiger (1 year ago)
Iam young 34 age I search 🔍 about good women I don't care for age . Important thing is the love ❤ Pls if found women for marriage call me by recoment in here
KnightoftheLord1 (1 year ago)
Wtf? I couldn't even bag a fat ugly bitch like this! Fml, lol.
Rema Zeldagirl (1 year ago)
Angela I think this would be a great hit in Seattle. Would you be willing to start up something here ??? I was involved in a group "in the loop" who does lots of fun things but I am too busy, I like the idea of a monthly event I could plan and host?
TheRenard10 (1 year ago)
Older Women For Me...Not A Patch.
Tara Quinch (1 year ago)
I think this is great. If you want to date younger men go for it. Womenthat frown upon are usually embarrassed about their own sexuality or don't see themselves as women anymore. Men that have issues with it are jealous of the younger men as competition. .m
SIgmaThePrince (2 months ago)
Tara Quinch That’s funny; we say that about older women to younger women.
It is. I'm 33 and my gf is 42. The sex is the best ever, her body responds like clockwork to mine
WorldOfRandomStuff (1 year ago)
I agree with your analysis. Personally, I think the chemistry between an older woman and younger man can be off the charts!
Edmond Glauner (1 year ago)
Tara Quinch I'm into older women are you single
Promotion NY (2 years ago)
When older woman has money and younger man has few extra girl friends
S.A. Rise (2 years ago)
Yet older guys and younger women is a Problem 😐
ken b (7 months ago)
In America, if an older man dates a younger woman, he’s a perv. I don’t agree with it, but that’s just the way it is.
You should be focused on your schoolwork young woman
Not your Senpai (1 year ago)
PixelHollow Simmer now that's called rape
PixelHollow Simmer (1 year ago)
SA Rise I'm dating a 23 guy and I'm 15
Stella Bowen (1 year ago)

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